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(goście nie powinni mieć takich umiejętności) - ale spokojnie teraz co do Twojego twierdzenia:
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Expect the average asshole
Does this mean the guy you will be facing will be an unstoppable juggernaut? No far from it. You do need to realize, however, there is a hierarchy of toughness; there are some people who are tougher than others. The higher up someone is on this hierarchy, the more dangerous and difficult he will be.
Unfortunately, most martial arts training masquerading as self-defense doesn't take this into account.
Instructors either assume that the person you or they will be facing will immediately roll up in shock at the first sign of resistance. Equally dangerously and unrealistically they assume that every person they face will require a total blitzkrieg counterattack. That sort of counterattack will put you far over the legal standards of justifiable use of force. Thereby putting you in either prison or serious civil legal trouble
There is no "you just do this" answer when it comes to self-defense. That is because you *never* know where on the hierarchy your opponent will be *until* you have actually engaged! You must judge the appropriate use of force on the fly! Not enough and you will be hurt; too much and you are legally defined as the aggressor!
Nor will you know to what extreme he is willing to go in order to *win* until he has done it!
There are cues that such a person will give, but it requires a lifetime of experience and training to be able to see them, recognize their significance and react appropriately and in time. Even by people whose job it is to regularly confront such assholes, mistakes are made and sometimes there is too much force, and sometimes not enough. When the former happens the perp dies or is injured. When the latter happens the professional dies or is injured. Either way someone is hurt or dead.
So let's assume that you are not in a profession where you regularly have to confront troublemakers. What should you train for in self-defense?
Train for the "average asshole."
That means you should assume the guy you will be face will be a bullying, half-drunk, construction worker -- who is about your size or slightly larger. He'll be someone who is physically tough enough to take some punishment (hell, his work will abuse him more than most punches by martial artists). He isn't smart enough (or is too drunk) to realize that his course of action is going to have long-term repercussions. All he is concerned with are his immediate feelings of anger, frustration and wanting to take things out on your face. He wants to win, and, if he has to use your ass as a mop, he will gladly do so. The longer this goes on, the more extreme he is going to get. If he doesn't get his way, there is a good chance he is going to escalate the confrontation - often by using a tool, like a gun or a knife.
This isn't your worst case scenario. In fact, far from it. It is, however, a pretty typical asshole.
And that is who you better assume you are going to be facing. With this in mind, you might want to go back and re-examine your training thus far to see if what you are being taught would work against such a person. Because if it won't work on this guy, it sure as hell isn't going to work on a real bad ass.
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